Saturday, November 18, 2006

Acting Out Porn

As every man, you like watching porn and there is no problem with it. But when you try to reproduce what you’ve seen, well, you quickly realize that you can’t do it and that it is impossible. Did you really think that you were going to spray sperm right in her face or gently slapping your cock on her ass ? As you see porn is not comparable to real life sex.

And do not expect that you will perform as they do. These people are pros. You’re not. You could envy them, but you’re not them. That’s also why they are so well paid…They do things you couldn’t do. Look at this actress : she is sucking a cock twice as long as your wife could do. And this other : with a huge black penis in the back door. Do you know much of female colleagues that could do that ?

You see things in movies and you feel embarrassed to ask your girlfriend to do the same. Why ? Probably because you have to admit you like watching hardcore…

Why not ask ? If you don’t she will never know what’s on your mind. Tell her what you want to do and don’t be ashamed of this. Who knows, chances are she would like to try something new too. Better to keep comm. Lines opened you see – and get a better chance to realize some of your fantasies. Don’ t mix being nasty and acting nasty. You may think the girl in the movie is a fucking slut, the woman you’re doing this with is probably the woman you wake up everyday next to.

Discuss your sexual dreams with your partner if you plan to have a lasting experience with her. That’s an important factor in every lasting relationship. This will also save you big bucks from the hardcore section of your videostore. Always stay honest and open; you will find she also has some weird dreams and kinky ideas. Play around this and try to have fun.

Let’s both of you play a role, let imagination rules your relation. I mean, try to find a middle ground that you can reach together. It could be fun.

Remember, you and your partner are not porn actors and do not expect too much from her. Don’t put pressure. Imagine yourself with pressure, could you perform like a normal guy ? Not sure. Don’t demand too much and everything will fall into place. You’re not a porn movie director, she’s not an actress. In conclusion : keep a clear and realistic scenario when you’re acting your favorite sex scenes and positions.

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Penis size, women and general sexual satisfaction

Do you think that size has so much importance for women ? If this was not the case, why are still millions of men looking for means to enlarge their penis ? Knowing that most women are really turned on when they see a large big penis and that a majority of men are unhappy with their penis size, these two factors lead to the rise of the male enhancement industry.

This new industry is really flourishing, with some men caring about the sexual pleasure of their partners and others purchasing these penis enlargement programs to enhance their self-esteem and gain confidence. Anyway, pleasure and happiness are the two issues ! It could be sexual pleasure shared by both partners or simply a gain in self esteem.

Multiple kinds of enlargement products exist and can make a man’s penis bigger. E.g there are manual exercises, penis enlargement pills or patches, sex toys like pumps or stretchers. Various products also will yield different results, this depends on the way men use them…

But Hell ! An average size could also make the pleasure of a lady…because an oversized organ could cause her some pain. Especially when the “horse” don’t know how to gently handle his partner. You know, if you go “bhlam bhlam bhlam and splashhh”, it’s maybe not the good way to please her. More than a big penis, you probably need some seducing lessons and tips.

Should you speak with another man about the importance of the head and of the penis base, you could probably say that the head is more important than the base. In fact, this statement could be right, but also wrong because the important thing is the couple both sexual satisfaction.

And women will tell you that the base is the more important than the head. Even a penis with a bigger head is really good to look at, a penis with a bigger base feels better during the penetration. Indeed, the head when inside cannot stimulate the clitoris, while the base takes the role of giving the most pleasure by brushing the clitoris during the intercourse. This friction between the base and the clitoris gives a marvelous feeling to the woman.

Sometimes, some couples simply do not fit together. The penis could be too small for the vagina or the vagina could be too tight for the size of the penis. In this case, creativity will be their best friend and they will have to try various positions to find out which one will please them.