Saturday, November 18, 2006

Acting Out Porn

As every man, you like watching porn and there is no problem with it. But when you try to reproduce what you’ve seen, well, you quickly realize that you can’t do it and that it is impossible. Did you really think that you were going to spray sperm right in her face or gently slapping your cock on her ass ? As you see porn is not comparable to real life sex.

And do not expect that you will perform as they do. These people are pros. You’re not. You could envy them, but you’re not them. That’s also why they are so well paid…They do things you couldn’t do. Look at this actress : she is sucking a cock twice as long as your wife could do. And this other : with a huge black penis in the back door. Do you know much of female colleagues that could do that ?

You see things in movies and you feel embarrassed to ask your girlfriend to do the same. Why ? Probably because you have to admit you like watching hardcore…

Why not ask ? If you don’t she will never know what’s on your mind. Tell her what you want to do and don’t be ashamed of this. Who knows, chances are she would like to try something new too. Better to keep comm. Lines opened you see – and get a better chance to realize some of your fantasies. Don’ t mix being nasty and acting nasty. You may think the girl in the movie is a fucking slut, the woman you’re doing this with is probably the woman you wake up everyday next to.

Discuss your sexual dreams with your partner if you plan to have a lasting experience with her. That’s an important factor in every lasting relationship. This will also save you big bucks from the hardcore section of your videostore. Always stay honest and open; you will find she also has some weird dreams and kinky ideas. Play around this and try to have fun.

Let’s both of you play a role, let imagination rules your relation. I mean, try to find a middle ground that you can reach together. It could be fun.

Remember, you and your partner are not porn actors and do not expect too much from her. Don’t put pressure. Imagine yourself with pressure, could you perform like a normal guy ? Not sure. Don’t demand too much and everything will fall into place. You’re not a porn movie director, she’s not an actress. In conclusion : keep a clear and realistic scenario when you’re acting your favorite sex scenes and positions.

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