Dealing with the insecurity, stress and anxiety of having a small penis

For many men, having a small penis is a curse. Despite the idea that other physical problems, like being too short or the onset of baldness, are just as bad, a small penis has a much more profound impact on a man’s confidence, and can make men shy away from physical intimacy. This is not derived from being rejected outright by women; the fear that they suffer is that they will face a more hurtful rejection later on. Having a small penis can cause deep emotional scarring and create a psychological barrier that prevents them from forming a friendship involving a degree of physical intimacy. Getting changed in front of others in a locker room, going to a swimming pool or the beach are all situations that have the potential for exposure that men feel they need to avoid, no matter how much they want to enjoy them.

When it comes to the search for a girlfriend, having a small penis is the worst possible asset. In the eyes of a sufferer, it is worse than poor hygiene, a small penis makes a man feel ridiculous in the eyes of the opposite sex. To sufferers, it may not even matter whether the ladies in question make no comment on penis size. The men always believe that they are inadequate and suspect that women are attempting to fool them or protect them.

This psychological pattern of shyness, distrust, and constant suspicion can remain with men throughout their life and can influence their behavior when it comes to other issues as well. Having a small penis can have an enormous negative impact on the social and private lives of men. They may be suspicious that anyone they get close to is preparing to reveal their “secret”, and expose the man to public ridicule.

For men with a small penis the best way to deal with the issue is to try and get over their diminutive dimensions, and try not to letting it taint their relationships with other people. The sense of inadequacy that you feel may come from comparison, and perhaps you should look at the evidence for believing that a small penis is really so important in life.
Comparing yourself with the physical attributes of porn stars and bodybuilders will not do you any good. You can also look around for decent girls who do not move around constantly from one man to another. A girl who has not had sex in a while will be tight enough that size won’t matter to her.

The final thing to remember is to learn to trust other people in order to relax and enjoy life more.